Understand

Posted by Aiden Chan on April 21, 2010 in Life 生活點滴, Orange's emotion,

I had found out something recently…
It not a big duel but only a small problem…
But it makes me want to think more about it…

What mean understand?

If you ask someone about it they will answer…

“Understand? It is something which you know about a person like what he want to do about certain thing.”
“You will know what the person will do in which situation.”

Is this mean understand?
I’m interested on this issue recently…

How do you understand about a person?
Is it understood from your observation of this person?
Or the person tells you about what he/she is?

Does it mean that the person does not understand other well If the observation of a person is weak?

Human being likes to be this way…
When there are something happened to them…
They will say nothing…

When others do not pay attention or keep asking about it…
They will to be in sulk…

At the last they just hope others can guess about the problem and care about them…

But do you know what will the others think about it?
The others will think you are crazy and they are not the one who lives in your mind…
How does them know what are you thinking right now?

This is fact…
Many people don’t pay attention on it…

Do you think that before if you can guess what the problem of the person correctly…
The happiness of the person is more than he or she say…

Don’t simply perfunctory other…
You make hurt the person deeply but you don’t know…

Recently I just realize that I’m not easy to understand like what I think for…
Feel that I am complicated…
Actually I am as simple as it…
Haha…

I don’t want be emo…
But there are many factors make be turn into it…

I forgot about my own duty…
Cross to the boundary of my duty and it increase the burden of mine…

Just realize that actually you do not understand me well…
And feels that you and me are totally different…
I try to find out the similar between us but cant…

Last I only know that both of us come from different world…

Maybe all of these were just temporary…
Maybe it will change in the future when we talk again… =)
I feel like this way for now…

Understand a person well is not an easy mission…

Observation is one of the ways for understanding a person…